I should have known better. I should have known better. What I did to is follow the directions, per our agreement, to a "T". What I did NOT do, is listen to my inner voice. As much as it may be all about the kids, it is still understood, that we still MUST exchange something. If only something small, still something. For the second year in a row, I have made this mistake. Will I ever grasp the concept of this?